There is a subject very close to my heart that concerns losing one’s temper and yelling cruel and hurtful words at someone one loves or is close to. In my line of work I have to deal very many personalities and temperaments. Sadly there are many bullies but professionally one has to try to deal with them an persuade them into a course of action that you need them to take, often without them realising it. The downside of this is the immense concentration and effort it takes. One can quickly become exhausted and at the end of 14 or 15 hour day it is just too easy to be sharp or terse with one’s partner when he or she asks a simple question or requests a perfectly reasonable task. So quickly the swear words and rudeness tumble out of one’s mouth and almost as one tries to reel them back they have hit home and stung the one person that shouldn’t be attacked.
Suddenly the following argument or days of sulking silence engulf you and life is just miserable. I want to explore ways to stop this happening, ways to control the passion that one needs for the job in hand that should be left at work at not brought home.
I have to continue with my daily diary update so will continue tomorrow. have a great weekend if anyone has read this blog and please, please cuddle someone you love
